[mxim]

first off,
its a woman's duty to satisfy her man/ when a man and women get married they are making vows to one another. sex is a need,its a natural desire and for a women to take that away,its just plain selfish. it goes both ways,when i had low T problems,i made damn sure i addressed them in order to satisfy my wife,although she never complained. sex should not be dictated my one person;we can have sex only when i let you! what kind of a relationship is that. even though you are really in the mood and i'm not,i am not going to even attempt to please you,go satisfy yourself and leave me alone,i';m tired. by the way,do not go out and get it somewhere else,we're married,you should just suffer. thats basically what a women is telling us. also,never resort to begging,i never had to and will not start now. 2 people that live together and love each other but don't have sex are called brother and sister,not husband and wife.the only thing that differentiates the two is intimacy. i just simply say this;"i am not happy with the fact that we rarely have sex,if you are happy with that,thats your decision but i am letting you know,for the record that i don't like it and i'm serious;the ball is now in your court". also guys,forget about decorating a room with flowers and all that bullshit,either your wife is attracted to you and wants to have sex,or she is'nt. i can say if she has resentment built up because she is mad at you ar if she has some sort of medical problem,thats different. i would say this to your wives,you don't want to have sex with me but expect me to be faithful,which i am? you think thats fair? if you do then we have a HUGE problem.i am not mentioning this again,i am letting you know how serious an issue this is and its up to you to do something about it.