[van-man]

Women have a real fixation for the easy way out of fitness issues! If she is cheating on an appropriate and healthy diet by sneaking sodas and who knows what else away from home, then that tells me that she is incredibly immature and needs to work on her head first. I'm not shitting on you or her.... I have similar issues with my wife too. But once she starts seeing that her behavior is hurting herself more than anyone else, and eventually straining your marrige, then she just needs to hop on a treadmill or eliptical and work it off.