Alright dudes, another chick issue...

[seand95]

So heres the rundown. I met this girl in class over a year ago and by the end of the quarter I asked for her number and met up with her a few times at parties and at the bars for a month or so after we were through with the class. Somewhere along the line when we were out, she finally admits shes got a boyfreind! Sure, no biggie, other fish to fry.
So we stay freinds and its all good, and there remains an obvious attraraction especially on her end. I dont care, really, Im not gonna chase chicks too much and especially those with BF's, but of course id like to backhand her ass! aaannd shes pretty witty and sharp and a lot more aggressive than i thought she was.
So just recently her BF moves north 3 hrs and is going back to school (hes 27) i believe... kind of a loser, but harmless, nice guy. ANyways, I just said fuck it one night after studyin and took the glass of water out of her hand and started making out with her. (shed hinted a couple times they probably were gonna break up after he moved).
So, weeks later, thats escilated into full-blown doggie sessions and loads on her belly and its great! But shes still "together" with this dude. We talked breifly about what the deal was, but as someone said on here not long ago, "I gave up on chasing girls and long talks long ago". Gonna avoid drama at all costs.
Yeah, yeh, yeh, i know, its the perfect situation, sure! I can bang other chicks and not have guilt, as i am. But... I kinda like her, well wtf!? im not gonna lie, shes cool as hell and I know if she goes to visit him or he comes down her im gonna be jealous. So I guess you could say that there are some feelings, and i can say for once, that im almost 100% sure its not all physical.
Ok, stats: we're both 22. Shes been with this dude, for 4 years, hes not done much, as hes going back to school at 27 and got fired from being a mechanic. She has admited cautiously that shes really into me but just doesnt know the best way to end her current deal.
Me, last girl i dated, had JUST broken up with her boyfreind and as her rebound, i became her regular guy for about 4 months. Of course that didnt work out.
DUDES, give me some advice please. Not sayin I want to marry her, but I am kinda tired of the single setup. I can get ass here and there, but I really like being able to go to bed with a girl and get up and take em to the gym, the whole bit.
Do i just chill and let it play out? Get the benefit of unattached, free sex? Or do i hang with the current situation and let it further degrade my view on women after it doesnt pan out? (its low already) (been trying to lift it up as a personal improvement thing)

[Massive690]

yep thats a tough one bro, but damn near all of us have been there. the shitty part is: you dont really have any control over what happens, its all up to her. from personal experience, id stick around and keep treating her nicely and getting some ass as well, but if you happen to meet another girl you may like better then go for her, because this girl is probably going to end up fucking you over.
btw, i hear ya on tired of being single bit and how its nice to sleep with a familiar person every night.

[thick]

honestly would you want a girl who cheats on her boyfriend. You will be at the bad end one of these days. I would let her know that you like her but cant have a relationship with her while she is dating him. She should have even more respect for you and you will fill better as well. Now this is much easier said that done. Especially when you see her after a drink or two lol.

[GDSGFT]

Once a cheater always a cheater, just continue slapping her ass and don't develop further feelings.

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

I've been in the same situation as yourself and just continued to slap the bitches ass until she gave me an ultimatum. She said we'd have to be going out for me to keep receiving sex.

Give her a big salute and when enough is enough, get the fuck up outta there.

[seand95]

Ah the "tax with no regard" attitude rings true my freinds... just getting tired of the same old routine. its all good though. Im gonna take Thick's advice if anymore relationship/"test the waters" questions come up. I will feel better and that will get my whole opinion across loud and clear.

[hardcore210]

You've got your thinking all backwards. You think he's the sucker in all of this, but you're the one getting played. Think about it....that guy could be up north tagging all kinds of girls. Here you are falling for HIS girlfriend, and it doesn't appear that she's going to leave him anytime soon. Personally, I wouldn't want a relationship with a girl with such low character. If she's not respectable enough to end it & do things right, then she's not worth having.

[treeistheman2]

i have this one big rule with girls, do-not get serious with a girl, that cheats on her boyfriend. why because you will be next! if he cant trust her ,can you.