Girl problems, mabye you can help

[GeaR_and_SauCe]

Ok, I met this girl back in early January. She was a friend of a friend and I heard about her but never met her. She had a boyfriend at the time but seemed to be in love with me. We hung out everyweekend and had sex a couple of times. Back then, she used to ask me if I would ever go out with her and I told her, truthfully, no because I knew she was cheating on her current boyfriend with me....not really girlfriend material if you know what I mean. Then, one night, she told me she broke up with her boyfriend. When this happened, it seemed like she wanted nothing to do with me anymore, almost like she just wanted to relax and enjoy being single, which I can understand. Anyway, she still hung out from time to time but I stopped messing with her about 2 months ago. I talked to her on the phone for a few times a week but she seemed distant like she didn't really like me anymore. So, she called me this past Thursday to talk and she ended up hanging out with me on Friday. When we are out she says "You are the last person I've had sex with, I haven't had sex in a long time. If I stay over, we're having sex"....so, I agreed and home we went. I stayed up with her all night talking and when I tried to move in on her she kind of denied me. I feel like I totally got played. And now, for some reason, I seem to be really into this girl. I can't stop thinking about her and its funny because 2 months ago it was the other way around, she was into me a lot and I had no feelings for her. Now, I'm into her and it seems like I can't have her. Its driving me nuts and I'm taking clomid now so I think thats making it worse. What should I do? Should I call her and hope that shit works out or should I just never talk to her again. I know the latter is probably the best option but I really like this girl now and its driving me nuts. Its not that I want to be with her I think, its more of me not being able to handle the fact that I had her and now I can't.....

[Massive690]

yep, chicks are crazy....

[Bob Smith]

Wht should you do? First, learn to use freakin paragraphs!!

Second, ignore her. Shes playing you like a drum.

[krom]

bro it sounds like to me she's playing with your head. If it were me I wouldn't let her know that she's getting to you. She'll be back around but, if she knows that she has you hooked then she'll continue with the head games

[Ian Smith]

The one thing I can honestly say Ive learned about women from my past relationships is that they are confusing as hell,,, the more you do for them,,, the less they want,,,, the less you do for them,,, the more they want...... Your world will continue with or with out her.... I know that feeling your talking about,,, most men probably do.... If you dont call her,, it will drive yu nuts thinking about the "what ifs", if youdo call her, she might just continue with the mind games..... Personaly, I would let a couple of weeks go by, keep yourself busy,, and eventualy you will stop thinking abou her,,, then when your head is clear, maybe speak to her; you might not even want to after a couple of weeks go by... Hope this helps

[Massive690]

get her drunk and put it in her butt, then she'll start respecting you

[Ian Smith]

Originally Posted by Massive690

get her drunk and put it in her butt, then she'll start respecting you

Oh ya, I forgot about that option.. LOL

[Manuel_Hung]

Dude i am in my mid to late thirties (I hateto say that )

And had many friends meet married women and then go out with my friends....break up with tier spouse and ten turn around and cheat on the new guy........once a cheat always a cheat....stay away....and if ur having feelings for her don't fuck her it will mess with ur head even more!

[spound]

Originally Posted by Manuel_Hung

Dude i am in my mid to late thirties (I hateto say that )

And had many friends meet married women and then go out with my friends....break up with tier spouse and ten turn around and cheat on the new guy........once a cheat always a cheat....stay away....and if ur having feelings for her don't fuck her it will mess with ur head even more!

I agree, sex only complicates things, and it looks like you have a sexual attchment going on here which really sucks because it clouds up the thought of whether or not you really like her and vice versa.

[GeaR_and_SauCe]

I actually ain't into her that much, its just when I'm alone I always think about her for some reason. And its only been the past two weeks, since I started the clomid. The clomid is definitly making things worse. Thanks for the advice, you guys are right I'm just not gonna talk to her anymore. For some reason I don't think she is playing head games, I think she is just really ignorant because shes a girl and they never ever know what they want.....But yea, I'm definitly gonna stay away for a while. I kind of felt bad for her when she said I was the last person she was with because I've been with 3 other girls since her but I would always rather be with her. I just figured she was out with other guys anyway and 2 of them girls were in cancun. I think that mabye she really liked me and I hurt her feelings because I went and banged someone she knows, she asked me about it and i told her didn't happen, and then she found out it did. The girls know each other from hanging out and they hate each other, they actually almost fought at a bar over this shit one night until the bouncers broke it up. Whatever, I still have a good time without her but that shit the other night made me so mad.

Probably for the best. If you are getting laid as much as you have been you don't need her around anyways.

However, can I get her number?

Originally Posted by GeaR_and_SauCe

I actually ain't into her that much, its just when I'm alone I always think about her for some reason. And its only been the past two weeks, since I started the clomid. The clomid is definitly making things worse. Thanks for the advice, you guys are right I'm just not gonna talk to her anymore. For some reason I don't think she is playing head games, I think she is just really ignorant because shes a girl and they never ever know what they want.....But yea, I'm definitly gonna stay away for a while. I kind of felt bad for her when she said I was the last person she was with because I've been with 3 other girls since her but I would always rather be with her. I just figured she was out with other guys anyway and 2 of them girls were in cancun. I think that mabye she really liked me and I hurt her feelings because I went and banged someone she knows, she asked me about it and i told her didn't happen, and then she found out it did. The girls know each other from hanging out and they hate each other, they actually almost fought at a bar over this shit one night until the bouncers broke it up. Whatever, I still have a good time without her but that shit the other night made me so mad.

[jah_live10]

SHE KNOWS....AND EVERYONE ELSE KNOWS..
"that everyone wants what they cant have"

i gotta agree with bob smith
i hear the drums playing in the background.........

[jah_live10]

oh yah and....
once you fuck her again........you wont want her
Trust Me

[Ian Smith]

"everyone wants what they cant have"

Well said.

[oldtimer]

Originally Posted by Bob Smith

Second, ignore her. Shes playing you like a drum.

Well said.

-OT