girlfriend found out

[chiseled21]

Hello All, I do not post much but thought that this is post worthy.
I am in the kitchen on a beautiful Saturday afternoon preparing my meal of salmon and rice. I hear loud footsteps behind me and a screeching voice screams "what the fuck is this as a used stick is thrown onto the island".
My natural reaction is "ahhhhhh supplements". My normally beautiful and happy live in girlfriend now more resembles the most demonic interrogator imaginable. With nostrils flaring and eyes peering through me like a laser I feel as if I am Saddam on trial for crimes against humanity. With the shock and aw that she reacted with I was at a loss of words; with that she proceeded to hurl the stick at my back and storm off(At least she left the cap on). To make a long story short it took two days to repair things and I was pretty close to homeless. After the usual flowers, fine dining, testosterone fueled porntype make up fucking, and some serious talking I think I am in the clear. She was/is not upset about the AS but about the fact that I lied in regards to the matter. The only response from me that seemed to work was that I made the dec. not to tell anyone prior to ever meeting her.

She's just confused. She buys the hype that the press has been spooling about AAS so she doesn't know any better. Talk to her like an adult and hopefully she will come around. If not, find another girlfriend.

Originally Posted by chiseled21

Hello All, I do not post much but thought that this is post worthy.
I am in the kitchen on a beautiful Saturday afternoon preparing my meal of salmon and rice. I hear loud footsteps behind me and a screeching voice screams "what the fuck is this as a used stick is thrown onto the island".
My natural reaction is "ahhhhhh supplements". My normally beautiful and happy live in girlfriend now more resembles the most demonic interrogator imaginable. With nostrils flaring and eyes peering through me like a laser I feel as if I am Saddam on trial for crimes against humanity. With the shock and aw that she reacted with I was at a loss of words; with that she proceeded to hurl the stick at my back and storm off(At least she left the cap on). To make a long story short it took two days to repair things and I was pretty close to homeless. After the usual flowers, fine dining, testosterone fueled porntype make up fucking, and some serious talking I think I am in the clear. She was/is not upset about the AS but about the fact that I lied in regards to the matter. The only response from me that seemed to work was that I made the dec. not to tell anyone prior to ever meeting her.

[chiseled21]

Thanks for the response. I was surprised that she was not pissed about me using AS. She is a pharm rep. and started her career in nursing, the only thing that upset her is my hiding it from her. All in all I am happy that I no longer have to hide it.

[occam]

Sounds like a good thing all in all. No secrets to worry about, having to lie about sides and hiding things sucks. Why are you covered in sweat everynight? What is in that bottle? etc etc.

She has a medical background, cares about your well being, is okay with your choose to use, and lives with you...........sounds like a great thing.

Maybe you can talk her into giving you your glute pokes huh?

[madman]

I told two of my friends that are on thier second cycles to tell the wives and they chose not to. Man, they will always find out; and the fact that you kept a secret from them is what will bring you heartache. Just tell them and get it out of the way, it's a lot easier than hiding the truth.

[seand95]

Originally Posted by madman

I told two of my friends that are on thier second cycles to tell the wives and they chose not to. Man, they will always find out; and the fact that you kept a secret from them is what will bring you heartache. Just tell them and get it out of the way, it's a lot easier than hiding the truth.

you guys are saying to come out and tell her the situation! reason i asked is cause ive met this girl and i dont think its a good idea to tell her about it. i mean really, do any really classy, good chicks that dont have co-dependency issues and feel good about themselves, are going to go for a guy who is potentially shortening his life span and possibly redering himself steril. not to mention just spending money which we all know can add up with extended use.

now dont get me wrong here. i would like to use them for a while and get some gain out of it in the long run, if not just the experience. but i really wonder sometimes if im fucking up my balls for their later use some day and if some of these nice girls that i meet will be ok with my chosen activities.

[Meat Train]

Unless you get divorced and they use it against you-- then it is their weapon-- just like adultery....

Not coming from experince here-- just adding some thoughts.

[Bob Smith]

Originally Posted by seand95

you guys are saying to come out and tell her the situation! reason i asked is cause ive met this girl and i dont think its a good idea to tell her about it. i mean really, do any really classy, good chicks that dont have co-dependency issues and feel good about themselves, are going to go for a guy who is potentially shortening his life span and possibly redering himself steril. not to mention just spending money which we all know can add up with extended use.

The answer is an absolute yes. Jewel (my gf and future wife) was very cool about me using. Shes classy, intelligent (Masters from a Top 3 school), definitely not co-dependent, and has a smokin hot body. I told her about a week after we started dating and we ended up having a good 3 hour discussion about the pros/cons, legal aspects, side effects and so on. Her main concern is my personal health and legal freedom. She realized even before we talked about it that the AAS laws (among other laws) are totally retarded and dont coincide with medical reality.

IMO, if your chick isnt open to those discussions, then shes the one with the issues, not you.

[demarco]

Originally Posted by madman

I told two of my friends that are on thier second cycles to tell the wives and they chose not to. Man, they will always find out; and the fact that you kept a secret from them is what will bring you heartache. Just tell them and get it out of the way, it's a lot easier than hiding the truth.

This is so true. You can not hide pins and vials forever. How do you explain looking like a beast and being horny all the time. It can work against you though if you ever get divorced, she will bring it up in court. I might not tell girlfriends because they are on a temp basis, its none of thier business but married guys should tell the wife. I'm married and the wife knows all about it. Hell, creatine can't give you the type of body I have and my wife knows it!

Demarco

[hardhatarea]

Yeah, I'm pretty lucky. My GF is pretty cool about the whole thing. At first she said she wasn't comfortable with the pins and asked me to just stick with orals. But, after I explained to her the levels of toxicity and so forth with orals vs. oils she understood. Besides, I think she'd rather have me looking ripped and lean as opposed to being a skinny rail. Also, she trusts in the fact that I did my homework regarding AAS. Of course, 85% of my education came from the bros here on MESO. So, in that regards..."thanks bros!!!".

[chiseled21]

Originally Posted by seand95

you guys are saying to come out and tell her the situation! reason i asked is cause ive met this girl and i dont think its a good idea to tell her about it. i mean really, do any really classy, good chicks that dont have co-dependency issues and feel good about themselves, are going to go for a guy who is potentially shortening his life span and possibly redering himself steril. not to mention just spending money which we all know can add up with extended use.

now dont get me wrong here. i would like to use them for a while and get some gain out of it in the long run, if not just the experience. but i really wonder sometimes if im fucking up my balls for their later use some day and if some of these nice girls that i meet will be ok with my chosen activities.

I was pleasantly surprised that my girlfriend of one year was cool about the use of AS. She was only pissed that I hid it and violated our trust. She is a good woman to; no serious issues, BA degree, worked for years as a therapist and is now in pharma sales, and she is beautiful with a great body. All in all she is a classy, good chick, with no co-dependency issues and is Ok with the AS use now that it is out in the open. One concern still in the back of my head though is what if we got into a huge fight in the future and she used the AS use against me in a custody dispute if we ever have kids. I guess I will have to cross that bridge if I ever arrive at it.