i hate single mothers who spoil their kids

[niko]

i'm crazy about my latest asian. she's korean, 32, hot, friendly, puts up with my questionable, uh, habits, she cooks like no other, she loves sex, she takes it in the ass, she likes porn, she talks dirty, she's got a great career, she has money, but she baby's the FUCK out of her six year old boy.


there is no adult time. she plays with him from the moment school is over until he goes to bed. the kid should be playing with friends. it's mommy this, mommy that. shut the fuck up you brat.

i've been seeing her two months and i've become her trainer. she has never done any weight training. when she has him, 3 or 4 days a week, it takes her 30 minutes to make sure he feels comfortable with the day care bitch at the gym.

he plays her like a violin. she's too dumb to realize it, plus, it's a competition with the kids father, and they are good friends now. he complains to each of them about each other.

now, i've dated a lot of girls with kids. i'm not over reacting, i raised my cousin's kids too.

her mother is here visiting from korea, and she said, "conner doesn't like me to get his bath ready, you have to do it liz." what the fuck? throw the kid in the shower and scrub his ass with a wire brush! he actually washes himself, and no one is in the bathroom to make him feel uncomfortable. who cares what he has to say about his bath. make him wash and that's it.


it's all about pleasing a six year old. i love kids, i want him to be happy, but it's our time. we are in our prime.

thanks for reading this whole thing guys, i'm going fucking nutz. she doesn't like me to butt in, but i've started. it is progressing very slowly. i wish i could be the father and lay down the law.

tell me what you guys think

[thick]

I think u are dead on. She is setting herself up for some major problems. She thinks it is showing love for him by spoiling him but it is actually going to make him an unbearable person and isnt doing him any favors. It will only get worse unless she changes her shit

[Grizzly]

LMMFAO! I know just what you mean, dude. I think I really just hate single mothers because I've yet to meet one with kids I didn't want to punt 75 yards.

[niko]

i swear i have a much easier time with daughters. i don't know if i should end it with her. i really don't like her kid. at dinner last night i looked at him and thought to myself, i hate you, you spoiled fucker! it's not him i hate, it's their relationship. i'm not jealous of him, but seriously, it can't always be "connor" time.

[novicebb]

I hate any parents that spoil their kids period.

[CyniQ]

Originally Posted by niko

i swear i have a much easier time with daughters. i don't know if i should end it with her. i really don't like her kid. at dinner last night i looked at him and thought to myself, i hate you, you spoiled fucker! it's not him i hate, it's their relationship. i'm not jealous of him, but seriously, it can't always be "connor" time.

It sounds exactly like you're jealous of him. I think that's more normal than people realize or like to admit. You know what you're feeling better than I do. I'm just saying that's what it sounds like.

You're not living with her are you? Either way, I would remove it (Connor) as an issue. Give her a story like, "I know we've only been seeing each other for a couple of months. But I feel like I'm really getting attached to Connor, and I find myself wanting to take on more of a fatherly role. I don't think either of us is ready for that. And I certainly don't want Connor to get hurt if things between us don't work out. I think it would take some of the pressure off of Connor if you and I focus on our relationship for a while without putting him in a position where he has to be involved." Or something like that. It looks like you're looking out for the kids best interests (which translates into ass from mom) and then you try to set up dates when the kid won't get in the way. Just make sure you don't convey the idea that you want to take the relationship to the "next level". You want to pull back and give the two of you time to develop your relationship without putting the kid's life in turmoil.

[niko]

wow, that's a great plan. i already see them every day. she's hooked on the sausage. he saw us kiss the other day, and he bitched about it after i left. can you believe she promised him she wouldn't kiss me anymore? why shelter him like that? this is way past a one nite stand. i was pissed!

[Grizzly]

I'm not a professional or anything, but I definitely think you shoud break it off. He'll drive you insane. Find one without kids. They have to be out there somewhere. If you find them, let me know.

[niko]

tell me about it. she's already called me twice today and she still doesn't have the guts to tell him i'm MR. sausage. she wants constant attention from me, i have no problem with that, she's not really high maintenance. she pays for just about everything, and doesn't give me shit about my friends that are girls.

it's just that i have to do fatherly things, but i have no voice as far as a role model. i'm picking him up from school today, and a bunch of other little things that progress into me being around all of the time. i pretty much am his step father.

oh well, i'll take my anger out on her asshole tonight. she always let's me do it on tuesdays!

[CyniQ]

Originally Posted by Grizzly

I'm not a professional or anything, but I definitely think you shoud break it off. He'll drive you insane. Find one without kids. They have to be out there somewhere. If you find them, let me know.

For guys our age... They're getting fewer and fewer. I'm not looking personally, but a good friend of mine is on the prowl. He's 32 and dates alot of 21-22 year olds cause he wants to get married and doesn't want a chick with kids. He looks in the wrong places though. And so do you probably. The solution is to date a higher quality woman. Find a 27 year old, educated, career woman who's got her own money, and I bet you she doesn't have kids. "But how do I find her O wise and benevolent CyniQ?" you may ask. Join a business networking group. Or get yourself on the board of some local charities or magazines. Charities! Oh. the women you meet doing charity work... If I was single... Nevermind. Or go house shopping. There are tons of hot real estate agents and even if they turn you down. They still have to be nice. You are after all a potential buyer.

[niko]

i am a real estate agent and broker. i'm retarded too, because i like women over 25. this one is 32, and the more i think about it, i'm beyond retarded.

[CyniQ]

Originally Posted by niko

i am a real estate agent and broker. i'm retarded too, because i like women over 25. this one is 32, and the more i think about it, i'm beyond retarded.

I like "grown" women too. I think my wife is just coming into her prime. She'll be 31 this year.

A broker huh? Cool. I'm starting real estate classes at my local Community College at the end of this month. I don't want to be an agent though. I'm doing it more for reference than anything else. I might jump on with a meat house like Keller Williams so I can access the MLS (don't you have to be affiliated to do that?). Anyway I have this long story about how I purchased a piece of commercial property and am losing my ass cause it won't sell. I won't bore you with that now. I want to try residential RE next. I know, I'm a glutton for punishment. I'm going to try buying a distressed prop. and have my dad fix it up (he's not working anyway, it'll give him something to do) and then see if we can sell it for a profit.

[Grizzly]

This is my problem, too. I detest, loathe, hate, despise, give me some more synonyms, young girls. Fucking hate them! 24 is the minimum and I prefer the general 27 age, but women that old tend to have kids...in my experience anyway.

Can't be too hard to meet one. It might help if I wasn't such an antisocial dick, though.

[CyniQ]

Originally Posted by Grizzly

This is my problem, too. I detest, loathe, hate, despise, give me some more synonyms, young girls. Fucking hate them! 24 is the minimum and I prefer the general 27 age, but women that old tend to have kids...in my experience anyway.

Can't be too hard to meet one. It might help if I wasn't such an antisocial dick, though.

Read my post above. I told you how to meet them. The rest is up to you...

Grasshopper.

[Grizzly]

Read MY post above. "Antisocial dick". Capiche?

Charity; you've got to be kidding me. Fucking kidding me. I could do the business thing, but I don't know about that stuff. Moreover, I don't get home until 10pm each day, so I'm pretty strapped. Maybe I'll just hang out at the grocery store. LOL