Is she playing games?

[GDSGFT]

Ok, here's the deal boys and girls.

I've been with this chick for the last two months, she's 'apparently' a good girl who doesn't do shit, and i respect her for that as I'm over fucking sluts and I'm looking for commitment with a girl.

Now, she's 17 and I'm 22, there's a bit of an age difference but this isn't your everyday 17 year old, she's a beauty therapist who owns her own business and makes more money than most of us boys on here, but that's completely irrelevant.

The story is, last night I was at her house for valentines day. A girlfriend of hers messaged her and asked her how her night with me was going. She told me I could reply to the message as I knew this girl also.

While I was replying to the message, she received a message from some random called Marc saying 'Hey this is my new number etc etc'

That didn't bother me, as i've never been a possessive guy. She has her guy friends like I have my girlfriends.

What did bother me though is when I looked in her mobile phone inbox, she only had messages from me.

She had deleted messages from all other people before I had arrived. She said that i'd take the messages the wrong way and they didn't mean anything. They were just from guy friends wishing her a happy valentines day etc etc.

There were messages in there from me back dated to two months ago. Surely guys have messaged her in this time, so it wasn't only valentines day messages she had deleted.

The other night she sent me an sms saying that she didn't want to hide anything from me and she didn't want me hiding anything from her. So she just contradicted that statement by deleting those messages.

Boys, her friends tell me she's wrapped in me and that she wouldn't fuck me around. I mean she has no spare time, she's always calling me after work, during work and before work. But it's not that fuckin hard to get some other shit on the side, i've done it many of times before.

We live quite a distance away so I don't see her all that often, that's another thing which is beginning to shit me.

There's only one reason why people would delete sms messages from their phones and that's to hide shit from other people. I used to do it to girls, my mates still do it up to this date...

I don't know what the fuck's going on. Would like to get some feedback from you boys.

Thanks heaps

[Grizzly]

I don't want to rain on your parade or be the bearer of bad news, but

Originally Posted by GDSGFT

I've been with this chick for the last two months, she's 'apparently' a good girl who doesn't do shit,

Bwahahahahahahahahahaha! Ahahahahahahah! Hehehehehehehe! LOL ROFLMAO LMMFAO! That's the funniest shit I've ever heard. You are aware that when they make it a point to tell you that, it's because they're recovering slutbags, right? (not that there's anything wrong with a girl willing to give it up)

Ask yourself this: have you guys had sex? Do you think you're magically special and every other guy she has dated hasn't rocked her headboard? Probably not. It's not new territory for either of you.

Can I point out the glaring, nuclear explosion sized problem with this? SHE'S SEVEN-FUCKING-TEEN! She's a 17 year old GIRL dating a 22 year old man.(See my laughing paragraph) I'm not saying you're doing anything wrong, but I'm saying that she's still a little, tiny, baby, crazy as all get out girl. That's how they all are at 17. Personally, I wouldn't expect much from it, but I'd fuck the dog shit out of her nubile, perky titted ass.

In short, you ask "is she playing games" and I say, "you bet your fucking ass". Then again, I could be wrong. But we all know that never happens.

[Ronin_]

She is 17, she is therefore almost 99.99% certain to be an attention whore

[Phreezer]

NO matter what you say.. On how she's "Different" Dude.. She's still 17.. And what's worse.. if you guys do make it.. it won't last once she turns 21.. believe me on this.. All women start to wonder.. what did I miss out on... All my friends in college dated around.. went out.. flirted.. dated.. and I've only been with one man... She'll go out with her friends.. she'll have a damn good time..and next thing you know you are getting one of those..it's not you..it's me.. blah blah blah..

My adivice bro.. You're only 22.. Just bang em for now.. don't get too tied down to any one woman... And date the chicks that over 21.. believe me, it's more fun.. cause they can go everywhere that you can go...

Either way... good luck!

[Grizzly]

So right, Phreezer. One of my exes was with the same guy for around 5 years. The whole high school thing. She straight up told me that once she turned 21 it wasn't good anymore. And this is why everyone should do what Phreezer says. It's because he's almost as good as me at being right all the time.

[swage]

Grizz and Phreeze hit the nail on the head.

[THL]

Originally Posted by Phreezer

NO matter what you say.. On how she's "Different" Dude.. She's still 17.. And what's worse.. if you guys do make it.. it won't last once she turns 21.. believe me on this.. All women start to wonder.. what did I miss out on... All my friends in college dated around.. went out.. flirted.. dated.. and I've only been with one man... She'll go out with her friends.. she'll have a damn good time..and next thing you know you are getting one of those..it's not you..it's me.. blah blah blah..

My adivice bro.. You're only 22.. Just bang em for now.. don't get too tied down to any one woman... And date the chicks that over 21.. believe me, it's more fun.. cause they can go everywhere that you can go...

Either way... good luck!

Not always the case guys. I've been with my wife since high school and that was 18 years ago. I'm still the only guy she has ever been with. Of course, when you're as good as me, women don't really wonder what they might be missing.

[Kayz]

She probably THINKS she's in love....but once she realizes she's wasting "the best years of her life", she's gonna start "acting out". "Acting out" is female code for fucking anythings with a dick and a heartbeat. In some cases, it doesn't even need a heartbeat, as long as it's not too cold.

[RobbieH02879]

Originally Posted by Grizzly

I don't want to rain on your parade or be the bearer of bad news, but



Bwahahahahahahahahahaha! Ahahahahahahah! Hehehehehehehe! LOL ROFLMAO LMMFAO! That's the funniest shit I've ever heard. You are aware that when they make it a point to tell you that, it's because they're recovering slutbags, right? (not that there's anything wrong with a girl willing to give it up)

Ask yourself this: have you guys had sex? Do you think you're magically special and every other guy she has dated hasn't rocked her headboard? Probably not. It's not new territory for either of you.

Can I point out the glaring, nuclear explosion sized problem with this? SHE'S SEVEN-FUCKING-TEEN! She's a 17 year old GIRL dating a 22 year old man.(See my laughing paragraph) I'm not saying you're doing anything wrong, but I'm saying that she's still a little, tiny, baby, crazy as all get out girl. That's how they all are at 17. Personally, I wouldn't expect much from it, but I'd fuck the dog shit out of her nubile, perky titted ass.

In short, you ask "is she playing games" and I say, "you bet your fucking ass". Then again, I could be wrong. But we all know that never happens.

Grizzly is correct!

I dated a chick that didn't wanna have sex until marriage... Turns out she was a big fuckin' whore previously, I did fuck her a few times before she became "Reformed"...and I'm not bad in bed, she did squirt three times when I had sex with her...

Don't buy her anything....Thank me later.

[Phreezer]

Originally Posted by THL

Not always the case guys. I've been with my wife since high school and that was 18 years ago. I'm still the only guy she has ever been with. Of course, when you're as good as me, women don't really wonder what they might be missing.

Lol.. Well, you are The Happy Licker

[Grizzly]

WTF! Dude, you need to quit jocking me. It's pretty soft footing anyway I just posted in the "cronic" thread on outlaw about when THL was the happy licker. Well, you know what they say about great minds...

[GDSGFT]

Fuck you Grizz, you better not be right!

Thanks for the replies boys.

The thing is, her and her friends are all good Italian girls who don't believe in pre-marital sex. As gay as it fuckin sounds, that's fine with me.

I haven't fucked her, I haven't got head off her, hell, I haven't even had a handjob lol.

Next time I'm over, I'll make sure I'm on at least 750mg of test and i'll let the hormones get the better of me. Lets see If i get a slap in the face or a ticket to bed.

[RobbieH02879]

Originally Posted by GDSGFT

Fuck you Grizz, you better not be right!

Thanks for the replies boys.

The thing is, her and her friends are all good Italian girls who don't believe in pre-marital sex. As gay as it fuckin sounds, that's fine with me.

I haven't fucked her, I haven't got head off her, hell, I haven't even had a handjob lol.

Next time I'm over, I'll make sure I'm on at least 750mg of test and i'll let the hormones get the better of me. Lets see If i get a slap in the face or a ticket to bed.

I love Italian broads... I have only had the chance to date one, my bodybuilding went to hell from all the italian food she cooked for me, I'm a sucker for Italian food...and italian pie is amazing...

[Grizzly]

Oh, Jesus Cristo! Look at all the time I wasted typing out responses. I my have been wrong about here past whorishness. I mean, she is only 17, but the past isn't even a consideration. She was, is and always will be Italian. THUMBS DOWN!

[freedomfighter]

The Licker makes a point. No matter how many fems fit the faulted patterns pointed out by Griz and others there are always exceptions. All things are possible. I believe that your own past is trying to cloud your judgment in this. If you truly love this fem then you should seek to follow through with all your heart. Banish doubts as lies and seek to be as communicative as possible. If things go wrong yes it will hurt but you'll also have learned much. Just make sure you keep a clear conscience throughout and forgive any misunderstanding.