In my old age I missed the signs and dropped the ball...

[RobbieH02879]

lol

I think I fucked up. As some of you guys know I have been outta the dating scene for quite a while due to an injury, so I am just gaining back my confidence with the ladies. I posted my profile on Myspace and got a few hits from local chicks, well I have been talking to this one very beautiful woman for a couple weeks and we IM'ed each other tonite and she kept dropping hints such as "I'll be alone tomorrow", and what do I think of her and much more, also the "you're very good looking" and "My back is stiff, it's been a long tme since I had a back rub"etc...I don't know but I froze... I started out like " You don't have to be alone tomorrow...ya know it is a crime to be alone, right? " She replies " How do I go about not being alone tomorrow?" I froze and said " You could call up some friends or go out and do something"...what the fuck was that shit? I used to be a smooth cat and I threw out that shit when I should've closed the fuckin' deal! I'm so fuckin' pissed at myself...damnit! lmao

I still can't believe I froze over a damn computer! I used to be sort of a player...jeez I'm not used to this internet "chatting" for one, and was scared I might come on too strong just asking to meet her tomorrow...which is a valid concern, I read about all these fuckin' interent stalkers and certainly do not wanna sound like one of those jerk offs. I need some of you smooth internet dating bros advice(Ronin! lol), what the fuck should I say now? lol I started out okay, she was mentioning how she needs a big strong guy to go to bars with her, I said " well I'm big and strong, I'm sure we could come to terms..." she then said "What would I have to do?" I just played it cool and said "just le me buy you a few drinks..." Itw as all down hill from there...

I let all the bro's down...I'm so ashamed. Just venting...lmao

[freedomfighter]

Maybe subconsciously you want something more then a quick fling between the sheets. Myself I never was much of a player. I've let many "Opportunities" wilt away because I react badly to casual relationships. I'm a demanding person when it comes to personal relationships. So you didn't let me down. Maybe you let your penis down, but there are more important things(just don't let him know that)

[RobbieH02879]

Originally Posted by freedomfighter

Maybe subconsciously you want something more then a quick fling between the sheets. Myself I never was much of a player. I've let many "Opportunities" wilt away because I react badly to casual relationships. I'm a demanding person when it comes to personal relationships. So you didn't let me down. Maybe you let your penis down, but there are more important things(just don't let him know that)

You know, I would like to find a meaningful relationship...my last ex was a stripper...and that relationship was draining both physically and mentally. I was into the partying all the time phase... You could be right, and maybe this slow playing will pay off better in the end, I dunno. I was very disappointed in myself when I made this post, this girl seems to be both smart, confident and attractive...not a combination I find very often. But, maybe playing hard to get will pay off..either that or she never talks to me again... I guess I'll just play it by ear and see what happens...thanks for the advice, FF. It is greatly appreciated.

[freedomfighter]

Hmm I went with a stripper once. It did have a rough finish. I, at one time, sat down and did not move for 3 days. "Smart, confident, and attractive" sounds good to me. Still theres a lot about her you're not aware of yet. For example, she could be a Nazi. Not saying she is but often there are things hidden from us at first only to raise their ugly head later. Its the hidden things that matter the most. I learned this the hard way with a woman I married. Turned out she loved being beaten in a sexual way. I couldn't give her what she wanted. More pain for FF. Too bad she hadn't told me that at first. But I did learn. With relationships patience is invaluable. Keeping the balance between commitment and freedom is hard. A tightrope act as it were. All we can do is be as aware as we can. Yield but don't surrender. Give as much as the other will allow us. Oh yeah, Communication is king. Always be honest and not manipulative. With manipulation comes separation rather than unity. Unity is what a relationship results in. Two become one. A larger more complex creature. A world unto itself.

[Massive690]

hahaha you suck bro, jk, lol. shit happens, i make an ass out of myself all the time who cares. you just gotta be a pimp tonight thats all

[RobbieH02879]

Originally Posted by freedomfighter

Hmm I went with a stripper once. It did have a rough finish. I, at one time, sat down and did not move for 3 days. "Smart, confident, and attractive" sounds good to me. Still theres a lot about her you're not aware of yet. For example, she could be a Nazi. Not saying she is but often there are things hidden from us at first only to raise their ugly head later. Its the hidden things that matter the most. I learned this the hard way with a woman I married. Turned out she loved being beaten in a sexual way. I couldn't give her what she wanted. More pain for FF. Too bad she hadn't told me that at first. But I did learn. With relationships patience is invaluable. Keeping the balance between commitment and freedom is hard. A tightrope act as it were. All we can do is be as aware as we can. Yield but don't surrender. Give as much as the other will allow us. Oh yeah, Communication is king. Always be honest and not manipulative. With manipulation comes separation rather than unity. Unity is what a relationship results in. Two become one. A larger more complex creature. A world unto itself.

Excellent advice, I appreciate it bro.

[RobbieH02879]

Originally Posted by Massive690

hahaha you suck bro, jk, lol. shit happens, i make an ass out of myself all the time who cares. you just gotta be a pimp tonight thats all

lol

If there is a tonite! I suck now, I know, but I'm sticking to Freedom Fighters reasons...I just want more...I think.

I'm rusty, that's all...

Thanks, fellas.

Rob

[RobbieH02879]

Oh, yeah! I forgot to mention that I'm in the middle of a DNP cycle too...so my brain isn't working as quickly as it normally would, plus if I meet this girl...I'd have to paint her face yellow...which isn't so bad, but she'd have to get past my cracked out sweating...

[mrc0703]

Robbie robbie robbie... its all good bro ....hooking up over the internet is new to you...something you havent experienced....it not really my thing but what i do is after i feel that where comfortable with chatting i usually say emails have a tendancy to be impersonal... how would you feel about chatting on the phone ?......then it everything looks good i ask them out for a cup of coffee (1 cause its cheap the most you'll spend is 10 bucks if u go to starbucks and if shes from the internet sometime they put the best pic they can find from 3 years ago and now they look like ass lol... but its also to see if you guys hit it off... then take it from there)... dont be ashamed....give it time .... you'll get back on the horse

[RobbieH02879]

Originally Posted by mrc0703

Robbie robbie robbie... its all good bro ....hooking up over the internet is new to you...something you havent experienced....it not really my thing but what i do is after i feel that where comfortable with chatting i usually say emails have a tendancy to be impersonal... how would you feel about chatting on the phone ?......then it everything looks good i ask them out for a cup of coffee (1 cause its cheap the most you'll spend is 10 bucks if u go to starbucks and if shes from the internet sometime they put the best pic they can find from 3 years ago and now they look like ass lol... but its also to see if you guys hit it off... then take it from there)... dont be ashamed....give it time .... you'll get back on the horse

I'm not a fan of hooking up over the 'net either, like you said...it's too impersonal IMO.

Thanks for the advice, I'm gonna give it a try. Coffee sounds like a great idea.

[RobbieH02879]

Originally Posted by BioAS

Hey bro there is always the gay sceen. Just look how Grizz is doing.

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Yo, Grizz...shoot me an email...let me know about this gay scene that bio is referring to, hook a fellow meso brother up!....


lmao j/k!

[RobbieH02879]

BTW, I just got off the phone with another girl from the same site...she sounds great, very friendly and outgoing. The other girl that I made this post about acted like I should be begging her to go out with me...I don't beg, Thank you very much.

P.S. I was such a damn pimp on the phone...I think I have my smoothness back, just needed some practice with the neighborhood french poodle...j/k

I'm going out with her this weekend...

[thick]

I am sure grizzly would let you practice on him

Now quit dropping the ball and read her mind

Originally Posted by RobbieH02879

Yo, Grizz...shoot me an email...let me know about this gay scene that bio is referring to, hook a fellow meso brother up!....


lmao j/k!

[RobbieH02879]

Ahhh...what a night...

[RobbieH02879]

Originally Posted by BioAS

Hey just remember robbie...as long as its the ball you dropped and not the soap you will be good to go

PS - I heard bears (esp. Grizzly) like to hang out in gym showers. So be very very careful my friend.

lmfao!! Too damn funny!