yep, cute thread. let me also add that being overweight will shrink ur cock, the general rule is u lose about .5" for every 20-30 lbs over ur 12%bf weight. that fat pad on the pubic bone can be a killer, make ur dick sink into jiggly quicksand...
on a different note, being longer is ok with anal once u know how to open up the 2nd spot (connection between rectum n large intestine)...u basically need to relube all over again when u start going for that, otherwise it hurts for u both.
it's amazing how fucked up porn n society make us...i'm 37 n until 2 years ago i thought i was barely medium-sized, even tho guys always told me different. i happened to buy a tailor's tape measure when i started lifting and when i measured myself, i was 8.25x5.5 at the thinnest part of the shaft!
bottom line...go for yours. the main point for you should be your own sexual pleasure, and only when ur confident and selfish enuff in that regard will you then be able to be sensitive to your partner's pleasure WITHOUT LOSING YOU NERVE OR GETTING ANXIOUS ABOUT PERFORMANCE.
you cant get performance-anxiety when ur having too much fun, and when ur having enuf fun to keep u rock hard, u can perform ur best , n please ur partner most.
oh, n yea smaller partners can be amazing, my lover is 4'11" n he looks like a teenager...