What about stealing?

[armsports]

I don't advocate cheating in any form but what about "stealing" someone's girl? There's this girl I'm really interested in but she has a boyfriend. She has so much as admitted to me that they have no long-term plans together but she is hesitant to get out of the relationship now for a variety of reasons. I'll admit I spend a fair amount of time trying to impress her, not by doing stupid things or putting down her boyfriend but by showing her what a great guy I am. But my goal is definately to win her over and not just be her friend. Should I feel bad about this or just chalk it up as "the law of the jungle" so to speak. And to anybody that says forget about it and move on, she is DEFINATELY worth the effort.

[chris gordon]

dont believe their bullshit about "not wanting to leave for a variety of rerasons" its pretty simple if she wanted to be with you, she would dump him....chicks like this will play you and fuck your head up

[da game]

Don't fall for her bullshit bro. Sounds like she's trying to play both sides. If I were you, I would f**k her then leave after I blow my load. Not worth the trouble to stay with her.

[Mark Kerr]

"Stealing" someone's girl is ok unless...

1. She is married.

2. She is engaged.

Besides that, it is fair game. You can't control a girl being interested in you. Make sure it is over with her old BF first. In this case, sounds like she is playing both sides. Walk carefully bro.

[MK]

[armsports]

Well it's a little more complicated than it seems. She started pursuing me first when her boyfriend was away on tour and they had agreed to date other people. Unfortunately, I was seeing someone at the time. As I got to know her I realized what an incredible person she is, and wanting to "do the right thing", ended my other relationship before pursuing her. Needless to say, the boyfriend shows back up before I can make my move. I know at some point they're going to break up, I'm just wondering if I should try to expedite the process.

[Mark Kerr]

I dont see why not. Just make sure nothing physically happens until it is over with her BF.

[MK]

[eleven11]

all is fair in love and war. but I don't know if I'd want someones leftovers for a long term relationship........11

[Cronk]

We're all pretty much left-overs. lol. I don't see any problem with trying to win her over as long as you try to just be yourself instead of trying to be what her current bf is not. Good luck bro. Oh, and I see no problem with persuing a married or engaged woman. We're all focking human and we don't have much controll over who we have feelings for. We can controll our actions though. Life is too friggin short that's for sure. But if her bf, fiance or spouse isn't treating her like she deserves than she certainly deserves something better. Same goes for us married men.

[FTW]

Man your saying "stealing" like your gona take that pussy by force. Shit if you dont cock block him somebody else will.

Originally Posted by armsports

I don't advocate cheating in any form but what about "stealing" someone's girl? There's this girl I'm really interested in but she has a boyfriend. She has so much as admitted to me that they have no long-term plans together but she is hesitant to get out of the relationship now for a variety of reasons. I'll admit I spend a fair amount of time trying to impress her, not by doing stupid things or putting down her boyfriend but by showing her what a great guy I am. But my goal is definately to win her over and not just be her friend. Should I feel bad about this or just chalk it up as "the law of the jungle" so to speak. And to anybody that says forget about it and move on, she is DEFINATELY worth the effort.

[stevemac]

It's fair game bro, BUT....get ready for some serious baggage if she jumps right into another relationship with you. good luck.