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11-22-2004, 06:49 PM
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 Would this bother you??
Ok I will be brief with this but let me know what you think. I have been with this girl for 3 months and before we were dating she had this guy friend. he was just a friend but not once but twice they got drunk and slept together. She said it ment nothing just two friends messing around. Ok I didn't not have a problem with her talking to him untill I found out they had sex after that I told her I was uncomfortable with them seeing each other. So she stopped talking to him then got mad two months later for taking her friend away. In my opion once you have sex with someone you can't go back to the way things were they will always be more than friends. so we talked and she told me she was going to see him no matter how I feel. So we broke up! no matter what every time I think of him talking to her I think of them fucking. Am I wrong in this whol thing? I love her with all my heart but I just don't think I can trust them together. (by the way she did lie about them talking to him after I say his number on her phone.) She had a reason for calling him but no excuse for lieing and this along with the fucking I just can't be with her. Just tell me what you guys think this is a reason to break up? Thick Rick        |
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11-22-2004, 07:17 PM
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I agree with Ninja. If her "friendship" is more important to her then I say let her go. People are exactly where they want to be and if she wants to be with him(as a "friend") then let her. I think she'll end up fucking this guy again all it'll take is more alcohol. And the lying part...to me trust is the foundation of ANY relationship. Without a strong foundation even the strongest building will eventually fall. I say look for another one mate! There's plenty out there. Joe P.S. Nothing against you bro,but 3 months and you're already "in love"? |
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11-22-2004, 07:49 PM
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these guys are just insecure. you don't OWN her like a piece of meat. she should be able to be friends with whomever she would like. if things are good between you two, then there's no reason to be jealous. if she fucks him again, then you know it wasn't meant to be, and you move on. even if things are bad between the two of you, if you can't trust her enough to know she's not just gonna go hop in the sack with him, then you are either a) underestimating her, b) you don't trust yourself in that situation or c) it's not really love at all. it's insecurity talking if you're breakin' up with a chick for having a friend...no matter if she slept with him in the past or not. do you know girls that you have slept with before? when you see them is there anything still there? if the two of them slept together, and are still just friends, then obviously they realized that being "together" isn't what they want, or they are sick fucks and you are getting in the middle of it. only you know the real truth. if you love her, then trust her. show her you're a man, and she'll respect you. tell her that if she ever gets the urge to sleep with another man, you would like for her to discuss it with you first. then there are no secrets. you'll do alright. don't expect the worst out of someone you are supposedly in love with. |
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11-22-2004, 07:54 PM
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I wouldn't expect a girl to drop her friends because she met me, just as I don't expect to have to drop my friends. More than likely, your relationship will fail, but your friends will still be there. (and I don't mean "your" as in your particular relationship. just using it as a general pronoun)
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11-22-2004, 08:34 PM
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if they were fuck buddies than i wouldnt like my gf continuing that relationship. He will be the first one she turns to compain about any fight u guys have etc. I think u should stay broke up with her for sure
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11-22-2004, 09:15 PM
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Joe P.S. You know what they say "If you can't fuck your friends...who can you fuck. |
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11-22-2004, 09:21 PM
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11-22-2004, 10:12 PM
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Bro! I've been dating a long time and I have been in that situation before. Nothing good is going to come out of seeing her anymore. You have to be the Man. You laid down the law and she broke it. GET RID OF HER AND DON'T LOOK BACK! If you take her back she will have no respect for you anyway. Don't talk to her, don't look at her, don't go to places you might see her. Find someone new and move on.
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11-22-2004, 11:21 PM
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i agree, you are best out of that relationship... a lot of girls have a double standard- I guarantee that she would not be cool with you having a friend who you had fucked a few times, plus do you really want a girl who gets drunk and fucks her friends? those girls are only good for fooling around with, not giving your heart to
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