Hehe got caught by the GF tonight

[Ronin_]

Well it finally happened... bit of back ground info - ive been dating the girl 4 months and said from the OUTSET nothing serious - we can see who we like = an open relationship.....

Now I am 28 and i have not yet come close to the girl who personality and looks wise makes me want to think of no other girl and want to settle down. i always turn my head at the teens and early 20s girls every single day

When I meet her i will have a closed relationship, until then why the fuck should i limit and have to lie who i fuck due to seeing one broad????

So tonight things came to a head - she knew a little about my internet carry on and thought i was fucking around, so i just said yes and told the truth - basically ive seen 3 or 4 girls at any one time since dating her and that i clearly said one on one seriousness was expressly forbidden from the start.

Cue lots of calls from her friends ( one of which i have fucked lol ) saying please make it back up with her etc...

Honestly bro's im never getting into monogamy until i know they have 90% or greater long term potential.....

But then why monogamy at all????

Just because i fuck several women doesnt make me less fond of them all - i just dont think im built for monogamy or at least monogamy with a less than stratospheric beauty and mind..... Given sufficient power and money i would always have a harem of young girls

[Stephen]

as far as I'm concerned, males have almost nothing to gain from long term commitments such as engagement, marriage, etc.

females know this, and the shitty ones totally take advantage of it. women can just sit around, have a baby here and there, and be waited on hand and foot and pay for nothing.

I mean, its a mutual benefit if the girl is a totally awesome person, but, as you are saying, if she is not the one then we just get burned by sticking to strict rules and regulations.

[Ronin_]

Originally Posted by stevo1

maybe she/he is a member on this site and saw all those pics you posted of your latest hook ups from the match site a few days ago, and caught on to you game.

that sucks bro, i cant believe Grizzly finally caught on. we should have know...fags

serious not..manogamy..what the hell is that..i cant do it..we were programed to spread our seed bro..

She/HE?!?!?! it's a SHE bro!!

[Ronin_]

Originally Posted by Stephen

as far as I'm concerned, males have almost nothing to gain from long term commitments such as engagement, marriage, etc.

females know this, and the shitty ones totally take advantage of it. women can just sit around, have a baby here and there, and be waited on hand and foot and pay for nothing.

I mean, its a mutual benefit if the girl is a totally awesome person, but, as you are saying, if she is not the one then we just get burned by sticking to strict rules and regulations.

I couldnt agree more man...

So what approach to take in future? as ive said now? I only want an open relationship? Then half don't want to know. So you have a choice of not getting with half the girls due to honesty....

[Vicious cycle]

Originally Posted by Stephen

as far as I'm concerned, males have almost nothing to gain from long term commitments such as engagement, marriage, etc.

females know this, and the shitty ones totally take advantage of it. women can just sit around, have a baby here and there, and be waited on hand and foot and pay for nothing.

You must not be married. I wouldn't trade my wife for the world.

I hope you don't mean that. I bet you can think of at least 10 girls who make more money than you do and are not waiting to be waited on hand and foot. And if some girls are taking advantage of you, it's because you are letting them.

As for Ronin:
You shouldn't feel bad. You were honest with her from the very beginning, if she got too attached; thats her problem.

But let me caution you...you're 28 now and the young girls still look back at you. Soon and sooner than you may think, they won't. You'll magically over night become that "too old to be here guy" lurking in the trendy night clubs. Those girls (no matter how buffed you are) are going to start looking back at you like your a dirty old man. You'll start realizing that it's more fun to go to a VFW type place where you can hear yourself think and hold a conversation, where the beer isn't $3.50 a pop (if you can get waited on at all). If you wait too long, you may find your self alone. Once you start to hit 32-35, there aren't many quality girls out there left. By then they are either married, divorced /w KIDS or they are bar fly skanks.


I'm not flaming anyone here, I'm just saying if you don't see the value of a commited relationship...don't get into one. I'll get off my soap box now.

[Ronin_]

Originally Posted by Vicious cycle

You must not be married. I wouldn't trade my wife for the world.

I hope you don't mean that. I bet you can think of at least 10 girls who make more money than you do and are not waiting to be waited on hand and foot. And if some girls are taking advantage of you, it's because you are letting them.

As for Ronin:
You shouldn't feel bad. You were honest with her from the very beginning, if she got too attached; thats her problem.

But let me caution you...you're 28 now and the young girls still look back at you. Soon and sooner than you may think, they won't. You'll magically over night become that "too old to be here guy" lurking in the trendy night clubs. Those girls (no matter how buffed you are) are going to start looking back at you like your a dirty old man. You'll start realizing that it's more fun to go to a VFW type place where you can hear yourself think and hold a conversation, where the beer isn't $3.50 a pop (if you can get waited on at all). If you wait too long, you may find your self alone. Once you start to hit 32-35, there aren't many quality girls out there left. By then they are either married, divorced /w KIDS or they are bar fly skanks.


I'm not flaming anyone here, I'm just saying if you don't see the value of a commited relationship...don't get into one. I'll get off my soap box now.

Good advice bro, I think most the reason Im screwing around is because I feel like ive only got 5 or so more years left in me to do that...

[FasterPussycat]

Some people aren't meant to be married w/kids. I myself have never been married, and i'm 46. I'm currently engaged, but now after 1-1/2 yrs, i'm not sure this is what i want. Some women are so demanding you can never please them, and i think i have one of those.

She gets pissed when I go workout, doesn't want me to watch sports, for instance i'm in the dog house right now b/c i'm watching the World Series!
WTF?? Ronin, get it while you can. Maybe the teenies will stop lookin back, but there's always hot looking women in their 30's and 40's and even 50's! If you don't believe it, checkout ronisparadise.com.

[remedy]

Originally Posted by FasterPussycat

Some people aren't meant to be married w/kids. I myself have never been married, and i'm 46. I'm currently engaged, but now after 1-1/2 yrs, i'm not sure this is what i want. Some women are so demanding you can never please them, and i think i have one of those.

She gets pissed when I go workout, doesn't want me to watch sports, for instance i'm in the dog house right now b/c i'm watching the World Series!
WTF?? Ronin, get it while you can. Maybe the teenies will stop lookin back, but there's always hot looking women in their 30's and 40's and even 50's! If you don't believe it, checkout ronisparadise.com.

Hey Faster--You think it's bad now, wait till you marry her.
Even if you set her straight now, it will get worse after your married.

I'm 57 and speak from experience. Also if you got any $$$, property etc--- remember "Woman want what you got."

[dolfe1]

Post some more pics Ronin, I enjoyed those pics you posted a couple of months ago.

[Hypertrophiac]

I say TWO CAN PLAY AT THAT GAME....just put her in the doghouse whenever she wants to do the shit she likes to do, like go shopping, or get her nails done, or watch chick flick movies.....then after she realizes its no fun and not fair, explain to her the comparison. I had to do this with one of my g/f's and it whipped her into shape real fast.....however, i have yet to figure out the cure for "pointless bitching" so i'm single again too as of recently.

Originally Posted by FasterPussycat

Some people aren't meant to be married w/kids. I myself have never been married, and i'm 46. I'm currently engaged, but now after 1-1/2 yrs, i'm not sure this is what i want. Some women are so demanding you can never please them, and i think i have one of those.

She gets pissed when I go workout, doesn't want me to watch sports, for instance i'm in the dog house right now b/c i'm watching the World Series!
WTF?? Ronin, get it while you can. Maybe the teenies will stop lookin back, but there's always hot looking women in their 30's and 40's and even 50's! If you don't believe it, checkout ronisparadise.com.

[Grizzly]

Oh yeah, definitely DO NOT marry that one. In fact, dump her ass immediately! Hmmmm, maybe I really should try to get back with the ex. She didn't even yell when I looked at other girls....unless I was staring too long and she was standing next to me.