Orgasms?

[pmgamer18]

This has been on my mind for sometime now since I was a kid playing with my self. I would cross my legs and tighten my leg muscles to reach an orgasm. Same thing having sex but I would just tighten my leg muscles when I pushed in it is like I can't control this. Watching porn I never see the men do this. So the last time I has sex I kept my self from tightening my legs. I could not reach an orgasm. So now I tried playing with it and not crossing my leg or tightening my leg muscles can't reach an orgasm. Is this just me or do other men do this to reach an orgasm. I never could reach an orgasm with my wife on top laying still with her doing the work. Yet you see these movies and the men never look like there doing this.

[jasonshadow]

I have heard of girls doing this, but never guys

[deadlifter405]

Not necessary to do that, but that technique does work if I'm having trouble achieving orgasm for some reason such as back to back sessions or (me bad) having had too much to drink. I wouldn't sweat it!

[pmgamer18]

I read in Sex Matters®: Louanne Cole Weston, PhD
at webMD she has a Dr. Weston's FAQ's. In this a guy posted to her that he has a hard time reaching an orgasm having sex with women. She told him he has trained his penis to a hard fast masturbation and needs to retrain him self. She said to do this start by masturbating using lubes that mimic he having sex with a women. She said this takes some time but works. Now that I have my Testosterone levels the best every I need sex daily and my wife now older also is happy doing it just once a week. So I am going to try this I feel reaching an orgasm the way I have trained myself is to dam much work for a few sec. of pleasure. Men can lay on there backs and there body is relaxed and getting a BJ or a women on top and have an orgasm with out moving a muscle. I would like to get to this point.
http://boards.webmd.com/webx?50@@.5987f466
Phil