Men's Health Forum: This is a discussion on one more thng about sex and marriage within the Anabolic Steroids forums, part of the extensive steroid information at MESO-Rx; first off,
its a woman's duty to satisfy her man/ when a man and women get married they are making ...
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its a woman's duty to satisfy her man/ when a man and women get married they are making vows to one another. sex is a need,its a natural desire and for a women to take that away,its just plain selfish. it goes both ways,when i had low T problems,i made damn sure i addressed them in order to satisfy my wife,although she never complained. sex should not be dictated my one person;we can have sex only when i let you! what kind of a relationship is that. even though you are really in the mood and i'm not,i am not going to even attempt to please you,go satisfy yourself and leave me alone,i';m tired. by the way,do not go out and get it somewhere else,we're married,you should just suffer. thats basically what a women is telling us. also,never resort to begging,i never had to and will not start now. 2 people that live together and love each other but don't have sex are called brother and sister,not husband and wife.the only thing that differentiates the two is intimacy. i just simply say this;"i am not happy with the fact that we rarely have sex,if you are happy with that,thats your decision but i am letting you know,for the record that i don't like it and i'm serious;the ball is now in your court". also guys,forget about decorating a room with flowers and all that bullshit,either your wife is attracted to you and wants to have sex,or she is'nt. i can say if she has resentment built up because she is mad at you ar if she has some sort of medical problem,thats different. i would say this to your wives,you don't want to have sex with me but expect me to be faithful,which i am? you think thats fair? if you do then we have a HUGE problem.i am not mentioning this again,i am letting you know how serious an issue this is and its up to you to do something about it.
first off,
its a woman's duty to satisfy her man/ when a man and women get married they are making vows to one another. sex is a need,its a natural desire and for a women to take that away,its just plain selfish. it goes both ways,when i had low T problems,i made damn sure i addressed them in order to satisfy my wife,although she never complained. sex should not be dictated my one person;we can have sex only when i let you! what kind of a relationship is that. even though you are really in the mood and i'm not,i am not going to even attempt to please you,go satisfy yourself and leave me alone,i';m tired. by the way,do not go out and get it somewhere else,we're married,you should just suffer. thats basically what a women is telling us. also,never resort to begging,i never had to and will not start now. 2 people that live together and love each other but don't have sex are called brother and sister,not husband and wife.the only thing that differentiates the two is intimacy. i just simply say this;"i am not happy with the fact that we rarely have sex,if you are happy with that,thats your decision but i am letting you know,for the record that i don't like it and i'm serious;the ball is now in your court". also guys,forget about decorating a room with flowers and all that bullshit,either your wife is attracted to you and wants to have sex,or she is'nt. i can say if she has resentment built up because she is mad at you ar if she has some sort of medical problem,thats different. i would say this to your wives,you don't want to have sex with me but expect me to be faithful,which i am? you think thats fair? if you do then we have a HUGE problem.i am not mentioning this again,i am letting you know how serious an issue this is and its up to you to do something about it.
mxim, so much more goes into sex with women than with men. If a woman is not into having sex with her husband and it's a constant thing, then something is wrong with the relationship. Women tend to overanylize things and men tend to underanylize. To men, the answer is simple. Have sex. To women, it's much, much more complicated. Put yourself in her shoes and address the root of the problem. It's probably not sex.
My wife and i haven't been bumpin uglies for some time now so she said it was ok for me to bring girls home and have sex with them .. She said as long as i bring them home and she can watch to make sure i don't stick my pee pee in any dirty holes,i can bring home up to 5 women at one time .. Believe that? Nah me either .. What was the point of this post anyway?
mxim, so much more goes into sex with women than with men. If a woman is not into having sex with her husband and it's a constant thing, then something is wrong with the relationship. Women tend to overanylize things and men tend to underanylize. To men, the answer is simple. Have sex. To women, it's much, much more complicated. Put yourself in her shoes and address the root of the problem. It's probably not sex.
great response. When I work clinically with women who have "cheated" on their husbands, it's rarely about the sex. A little bit of sensitive listening with an emotionally unhappy married woman and it's real easy to steal someone's honey! Ask your wives about their friends who have cheated, this is the story you'll hear.
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great response. When I work clinically with women who have "cheated" on their husbands, it's rarely about the sex. A little bit of sensitive listening with an emotionally unhappy married woman and it's real easy to steal someone's honey! Ask your wives about their friends who have cheated, this is the story you'll hear.
Yeah my wife isn't happy with her body since the baby which is one thing but what bothers her the most is that i need to help more with my son .. She said she wants sex alot but she doesn't like me very much alot .. well we are doing better now .. i thought we were most of the time because she won't complain,she doesn't want to get me mad but i now see what is happening. We have been kissing on the lips alot lately which wasn't happening much the last few months and even cuddleing the last few days. I did tell he i really do love her which made her feel really good because i wasn't saying it much lately .. Now i just can't wait until we get some time .. very tired from the hospital just got back today ... and we will be doing the nasty very soon .. I'm going to try to do my best to make it past 30 seconds but i can't promiss her anything LOL .. I am also thinking about her more and other women alot less so that's a change for the better .. . I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her so we will make it work. It's not really that hard considering we really are in love with ea other .. A man can be mad at a women but if he's horney he probably won't have a problem havening sex with her. not the other way around .. I thought i knew women pretty good but my wife taught me alot the last few months . They really do have feelings and actually care about little things that i would usually take for granted. As long as i am pumped up with androgens and she with estrogens,we will never agree on everything and may argue alot but we know deep down what we mean to each other .. OK let me get a tissue real quick,i can't see what i'm typing ... Can't wait to get laid man .. I'm like a virgin again .. When ever we wait weeks or even months it always hurts her the 1st 5 minutes or so .. makes me feel damn good i must admitt
headdoc,
plenty of men listen to their wives and are very attentive and romantic. there seems to always be an excuse,where does it end,when your 90!
When does what end? I know couples in their 60's and 70's who have sex regularly. Satisfying sex among the geriatric group may and does mean oftentimes something different than "hittin' it". Ever wonder why you see this crowd at the buffets in the midday. Ever wonder how they spent the afternoons after such of big meal! Ah, probably not. Well, they truly know the meaning of "afternoon delight".
One of the keys to maintaining a good sex life in your thirties and forties (I am assuming the that represents the modal age group here, is understanding love, arrousal, and connection from your spouses point of view. Also, what are her energy levels like? All of us here love the gym. We pay attention of our nutrition so that it keeps our energy high. Do our wives do the same?
Woman these days work, raise kids, and take care of hoursholds. Alot of these ladies, just pass out at the end of the day. If this is your case, consider the following. Maybe your attentiveness and listening is not working because she is just too tired to attend. Discuss this with her in a non-hostile manner. If she concurs, try adding acts of personal service to your loving repertoire. You do dinner and the get the kids thru the evening. Let her take a bath after dinner. Let her sit and read a book or make some personal choice of her time. Pat Love, PhD, who wrote "Hot Monogamy", told of how she personally discovered how her husband could reliably get into her pants with acts of personal service--being picked up at the airport is a winner for her! This was after, by the way, a trial of superphysiologic doses of test. were tried and rejected as means to solve the problem between her husband and herself.
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And we'll collect the moments one by one.
I guess that's how the future's done.
Feist, "Mushaboom", 2005.
If you think your going to get an answer about this, you're dead wrong. How many jokes are there about this sort of thing?
Mate, the more you address the problem, the less you will get.
She has the power. Worse yet, she knows it. Shes got you wrapped around her little finger. And she knows that to..
Don't get upset with what I'm saying cause I'm not having a dig...I'm telling the truth.
I have been married and before we were at it 3 times a day, after I got married it would be lucky if it was 3 times a month.
Best bet? Ignor it. Don't try to get it. Do what you do without trying to have sex. Don't even think about it... I know your prob looking like this buuut if you know in your heart and can be honest to yourself that your being the best husband you can be, fvck em I say. They prob have issues that they either won't tell us or its with us!
Don't lower yourself either, cause she wants a man not a fag to discuss her nail colour!
P.S.
Guys have been trying unsucessfully to get more sex for years...women know this.
headdoc,
plenty of men listen to their wives and are very attentive and romantic. there seems to always be an excuse,where does it end,when your 90!
Exactly.
Ever seen a woman with curly hair leave it curly?
Ever seen a woman with straight hair leave it straight?
Variety mate....thats what it's all about....
Dress up, dress down do something different. play the goddam fireman whatver....
You know her better than we do so.....
but IMO I would never beg or lower myself for it. if she isn't giving it (see? see my wording? Like its hers to give?) .....either replace her or let her know shes on the path to replacement "For a younger model" like, uprgading your car....there a far too many women out there to not get it from somewhere...
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.. What was the point of this post anyway?
... Can't wait to get laid man .. I'm like a virgin again .. When ever we wait weeks or even months it always hurts her the 1st 5 minutes or so .. makes me feel damn good i must admitt 
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