Steroid Forum: This is a discussion on honesty! within the Anabolic Steroids forums, part of the extensive steroid information at MESO-Rx; I have done 2 cycles over the last year and a half and my signifigant other has no clue. I ...
I have done 2 cycles over the last year and a half and my signifigant other has no clue. I have had a drug problem in the past (cocaine) I'm 4 years clean now . I'm sure her concern will be about me putting a chemical in me.I have wanted to tell her cause we have a good relationship and even though i don't tell her I feel guiltMy concern is she will freak due to my drug mishaps in the past.. Mishaps is an understatement, I was a complete piece of shit when i was getting high. I am not on cycle now but plan to be in the future sometime. should i tell her? how if so? anyone have experience with this dilema?
I have done 2 cycles over the last year and a half and my signifigant other has no clue. I have had a drug problem in the past (cocaine) I'm 4 years clean now . I'm sure her concern will be about me putting a chemical in me.I have wanted to tell her cause we have a good relationship and even though i don't tell her I feel guiltMy concern is she will freak due to my drug mishaps in the past.. Mishaps is an understatement, I was a complete piece of shit when i was getting high. I am not on cycle now but plan to be in the future sometime. should i tell her? how if so? anyone have experience with this dilema?
I had the same problem, same addiction 5 years ago was 130lbs ended up in the hospital 2 times in 3 days for OD from coke and morphine then finaly got clean! I have done cycles since then and took alot of courage to tell my wife but I really had to stress to her that it did not make you feel high or anything like that. It took her awhile to let me do it but now she is ok with it! You should really stress the fact that it will not alter your mood or mind or give you any type of high. My big point was I am taking somthing that is already in my body just to help grow more muscle, i did talk to my doctor about this also before i ever started and he agreed! Is a cycle somewhat addicting? Sure, everyone loves gainging that new muscle and looking good, and we love the strenght gains of it! Is it somthing that would bring back an old addiction? I dont belive it would, and thank God for me it dident! Good Luck bro, rememmber that honesty would be best for you! If you give her a reason to not trust you then it will make things much worse!
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I have done 2 cycles over the last year and a half and my signifigant other has no clue. I have had a drug problem in the past (cocaine) I'm 4 years clean now . I'm sure her concern will be about me putting a chemical in me.I have wanted to tell her cause we have a good relationship and even though i don't tell her I feel guiltMy concern is she will freak due to my drug mishaps in the past.. Mishaps is an understatement, I was a complete piece of shit when i was getting high. I am not on cycle now but plan to be in the future sometime. should i tell her? how if so? anyone have experience with this dilema?
I am exactly like you. My wife does not know, and I am an addict, but I plan to tell her soon. I have not told her because of my history of addiction, which she lived through once. She is going to start an ANAVAR only cycle this week. I am going to let her experience it and then tell her about me I have been clean 8 years, but........do not kid yourself. Playing with AAS for an addict is probably the wrong thing to do. It is a tricky situation at best. I have decide to to do it because I do not like getting older, but I believe it could become a problem for me. I am on top of it at the moment, but I know what addiction can do and worry about how I am going to handle ASS in the long-run. ASS does elevate my mood and I like the way it makes me feel and the way it amps up my sex drive, which sex can be an addiction. I believe it is a VERY "slippery slope" that I hope I do not regret even though I am going against my better judgement.
I am exactly like you. My wife does not know, and I am an addict, but I plan to tell her soon. I have not told her because of my history of addiction, which she lived through once. She is going to start an ANAVAR only cycle this week. I am going to let her experience it and then tell her about me I have been clean 8 years, but........do not kid yourself. Playing with AAS for an addict is probably the wrong thing to do. It is a tricky situation at best. I have decide to to do it because I do not like getting older, but I believe it could become a problem for me. I am on top of it at the moment, but I know what addiction can do and worry about how I am going to handle ASS in the long-run. ASS does elevate my mood and I like the way it makes me feel and the way it amps up my sex drive, which sex can be an addiction. I believe it is a VERY "slippery slope" that I hope I do not regret even though I am going against my better judgement.
Just drop what the emotion-laden term "addiction" from your vocabulary when speaking of AAS and you'll be much better off. (Confusing AAS with ASS won't help either. ASS amps up my sex drive too.) Trigger words like that make you believe you're addicted every time you feel good about using something, be it gear, sex, or Caramilk® chocolate bars. AAS is not physically addictive. The words "psychologically addictive" mean nothing more than you like it. The rest is up to you.
wow...Fraggle, Solo: that is some of the best, well articulated advice I have seen on this or any other board. I couldn't say it better, so I won't try.
You guys are a credit to this forum...thank you!
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thank you all !! i will tell her sometime soon. it is very scary i have to admit. I do not feel guilty using ASS . i feel if done correctly there is nothing wrong with it. it is the stigma put on it by the world in general. i love ASS and i am very careful.
Just drop what the emotion-laden term "addiction" from your vocabulary when speaking of AAS and you'll be much better off. (Confusing AAS with ASS won't help either. ASS amps up my sex drive too.) Trigger words like that make you believe you're addicted every time you feel good about using something, be it gear, sex, or Caramilk® chocolate bars. AAS is not physically addictive. The words "psychologically addictive" mean nothing more than you like it. The rest is up to you.
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Solo - Appreciate the advice and will take it to heart. Fraggle, I also know honesty is the best policy and I will tell my wife.....eventually....I promise. ASS has gotten me into a lot more trouble than AAS ever could.
sometimes honesty about things that are not "need to know" can really backfire on you
I've heard so many stories of women telling their friends or family out of concern for their boyfriends and any time there is any little problem in a relationship they bring up the steroid issue, and if a relationship ever ends they can use it against you
you are dealing with a propagandized and misinformed public, and 9 times out of 10 it is a propaganda battle you can never win
honesty! 
) Trigger words like that make you believe you're addicted every time you feel good about using something, be it gear, sex, or Caramilk® chocolate bars. AAS is not physically addictive. The words "psychologically addictive" mean nothing more than you like it. The rest is up to you.
and i am very careful.
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